Why we’re sharing this
We bought our home through Help to Buy in 2021. When it came time to exit, we assumed it would take a few weeks. It took four months, cost thousands more than expected, and nearly broke us.
This isn’t a sanitised guide written by someone who Googled the process. It’s what actually happened to us, from October 2025 to February 2026 — including the parts that made us want to scrap the whole thing and walk away.
If you’re going through this right now, you’ll probably recognise some of it.
October 2025: The starting gun
Our mortgage rate was due to jump significantly in early February 2026. That gave us roughly four months — tight, but supposedly enough.
We instructed a broker and got a property valuation. It came back higher than we expected — which sounds like good news, but a higher valuation means a bigger equity loan repayment. Our 20% equity loan was now worth considerably more than the original amount.
Our broker ran two options: remortgage like-for-like (keeping the equity loan), or consolidate everything — clear Help to Buy, clear debts, one mortgage. We chose the second. One payment, actually paying down the principal instead of throwing money at interest.
The broker submitted the HTB repayment request. The solicitor was instructed. Everything was in motion.
What we didn’t know yet:
The RICS Help to Buy valuation we’d need later is completely separate from the mortgage lender’s valuation. Nobody mentioned this at the start. It cost us weeks.
November 2025: The silence
Five weeks after submitting the repayment request, we’d heard nothing. No acknowledgement, no update, no timeline.
“We’ve not heard anything back from this yet have we? I’m not missing anything?”
Turned out Help to Buy had been sending correspondence by post — to us, not our broker. Because apparently in 2025, the government still prefers Royal Mail over email for time-sensitive financial processes.
Our solicitor, meanwhile, discovered restrictions on our property title that would need a certificate from a separate law firm. Nobody had warned us about this. More on that later.
December 2025: The invisible month
Very little happened. Christmas period. Help to Buy processing slowly in the background.
Here’s the problem: our RICS valuation was dated October 2025. That meant it had a 3-month validity window, expiring in early January 2026. Nobody flagged this deadline to us. It just quietly ticked away while the process stalled.
January 2026: When it all went wrong
7 January, 7pm. An email from Help to Buy. Our valuation had expired. The 14-day grace period was ticking.
“Please help, what do I need to do?”
We’d actually submitted an amended valuation before the expiry date. But here’s the trap that nobody explains:
The Valuation Date Trap
Help to Buy cares about the date printed on the RICS report, not the date you submit it. Our amended report was still dated October. It didn’t matter that we’d sent it in January — it was expired the moment it was issued.
If your process is dragging (and it probably will), get a fresh valuation early. Don’t wait for the old one to expire.
This single misunderstanding cost us about three weeks and an entirely new valuation.
The certificate nobody warned us about
Our solicitor discovered that our property title had restrictions requiring a “certificate of consent” from a third-party law firm. This is common with new-build properties but nobody mentions it at the start.
The cost? £600 for a single certificate. Even our solicitor said it seemed high “for just a certificate.”
If your property is a new-build with title restrictions, check this before you start the process. It could add weeks and hundreds of pounds that aren’t in anyone’s cost estimate.
Late January: Breaking point
After months of being passed between our broker, solicitor, and Help to Buy — none of whom talk to each other effectively — we hit the wall.
Help to Buy wouldn’t speak to our broker (“third party”). Our solicitor couldn’t call Help to Buy on certain matters. We — the people who understand the process least — had somehow become the communications hub, forwarding emails between professionals and asking “what does this mean?”
We genuinely considered walking away:
“Could I just continue to pay my current mortgage? Nothing stopping me just calling this off is there?”
Our mortgage rate was about to jump by roughly £900 a month. We were four months in, thousands of pounds spent, and the process felt like it was going backwards.
The email that changed everything
We sent this to everyone — broker, solicitor, case managers:
“We’re finding this process very difficult to follow. We’re receiving emails from Help to Buy, our solicitor, and our broker separately, often with conflicting or unclear information, and we’ve ended up acting as a go-between when we don’t fully understand the process ourselves.
We need three things:
- A single point of contact who is responsible for coordinating between all parties.
- A clear written plan — what needs to happen, in what order, who is doing each step, and estimated dates.
- A breakdown of costs — what we’ve paid, what’s still owed, and any upcoming fees.
If we don’t have this by Friday lunchtime, we’re going to instruct a different broker and solicitor and start fresh.”
Things started moving after that.
The solicitor came back with a plan. The only outstanding item was a RICS valuation dated within a specific window — a document that, thanks to the date trap, essentially couldn’t exist.
“The only outstanding item depends on a document that doesn’t and never can exist.”
A new valuation was arranged. This time, we paid for it ourselves and it was marked as priority.
February 2026: Light at the end
Fresh valuation done. Sent to Help to Buy and our solicitor.
Then, one last farce. Help to Buy called. There was a problem with the new valuation. The surveyor had written the date as 02/03/2026 instead of 02/02/2026. A typo. On the one form that had been holding everything up for months.
Our response: 🤣
What else can you do at that point? The corrected report came through within two hours. Help to Buy acknowledged receipt the same afternoon.
The next day, three emails arrived. Repayment confirmation. Redemption application confirmation. And finally — the redemption quote.
Four months. Two valuations. One ultimatum email. Thousands in unexpected costs. And a mortgage rate that had already jumped £900/month while we waited.
Done.
What it actually cost us
| Cost | Amount |
|---|---|
| Broker fee | £695 |
| First RICS valuation (expired — wasted) | ~£350 |
| Second RICS valuation | ~£350 |
| Title restriction certificate | £600 |
| Solicitor/conveyancing fees | £500–1,000 |
| HTB interest during 4-month delay | £544 |
| Mortgage rate increase while waiting | ~£900/month |
The broker fee and solicitor fees were expected. Everything else was a surprise. Total unexpected costs came to roughly £2,000–3,000+, plus the ongoing £900/month rate increase while waiting for completion.
What we’d do differently
- Get the RICS Help to Buy valuation done immediately — don’t wait. The 3-month expiry clock starts the day the report is written.
- Check your property title for restrictions before you start. If you need third-party certificates, factor in the cost and time.
- Set a deadline from day one. Don’t let the process drift. Chase after two weeks, not five.
- Demand a single point of contact. You should not be the go-between forwarding emails between your own professionals.
- Budget for the unexpected. The official cost estimates don’t include valuations expiring, title certificates, or rate increases from delays.
- Use a broker who specialises in Help to Buy exits. Generic brokers don’t understand the Lenvi process. This makes a real difference.
Why we built this site
After going through all of that, we realised two things. First: the information available to Help to Buy homeowners is terrible — scattered, vague, and always written by people who’ve never actually done it. Second: there are hundreds of thousands of people who will go through this exact same process, and most of them will hit the same walls we did.
So we built the site we wished existed when we started.
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